This is a good way of interacting with other members and anyone can use it for free.
You also have the ability to sign up using your Facebook account for a richer profile and to find matches closer to home.
Usability How do I choose the best profile picture for my Lavalife profile?
Description: Most of the features are available for free, so you can enjoy Lavalife even without the upgrade. You can either join and existing forum, or create a new one.