Step 1 See things as they are, not as you hope them to be.
Conscious vs Subconscious Wars Here is the rule of human psychology:
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Whether the desired effect is to seem a bit mysterious, to look busy, or even not to appear too needy, it's a fairly common tactic in dating, particularly in the early stages.
Description: Now that she feels comfortable with you and confident you like her, she feels like she can finally be who she really is—and that might be a jeans-and-tee, on-the-couch-homebody kind of girl. No one really gives a shit how you feel if you have nothing to offer them.